How to be happy with bipolar disorder? Ask this guy... |
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Albert Ellis |
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| Albert Ellis is credited with inventing a system of psychology that people can learn themselves. Ellis teaches us that it isn't external events (dog dies, lover leaves etc) that make us feel sad.Rather, it's our 'crummy thinking' that upsets us.When bipolar disorder wrecks your life, your relationship, your education, your job, and your accommodation, Ellis says you can make yourself happy by the way you think. | Rational Emotive Therapy (RET)RET is the title Ellis gave his work. It's as straightforward as A, B, C.A is the Activating event (dog dies)B is the Belief that you repeat in your mind (Dog was my only friend and he shouldn't have died so young)C is the Consequence you bring on yourself (you feel miserable, don't go out for walks, cancel social engagements, repeat to everyone how unfair it is that Dog died, take to your bed, eat lots of ice-cream etc). |
Tip your thinking on its head!Following Albert Ellis, we can turn around this thinking. A is the Activating event (dog dies)B is a new Belief (what a great companion Dog was, how I love to recall the times when he would swim in the river etc).C is the new Consequence. You are appropriately sad for a time; you call the friends who particularly liked Dog and arrange a funeral and a meal together afterwards. In a month or so you investigate getting a new dog. |
RET and Bipolar DisorderPeople with bipolar disorder and their partners and housemates do tend to upset themselves unnecessarily by things that occur as a result of bioplar.You can turn your thinking around as simply as A, B, C. Albert Ellis has written many books, and inspired many others, from which you can literally learn how to think!Bipolar and the Art of Roller-coaster Riding by Madeleine Kelly is based on that constructive thinking, and devotes a chapter to applying RET to bipolar disorder. |
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You can live well with bipolar disorder! 